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Marin Moms to Lead 'One Million Moms For Gun Control' March Saturday

Mothers from Marin and Silicon Valley are leading the San Francisco Bay Area efforts to engage other mothers on 'commonsense gun control' legislation introduced Wednesday.

Can a million moms rise up against assault weapons?

In the San Francisco Bay Area, where U.S. Sen. Dianne Feinstein wrote the first assault weapons law that expired in 2004, it’s more bullish than that. If you look on the Bay Area Facebook page for 1 Million Moms 4 Gun Control, motherhood feels powerful.

“There are currently 4 million NRA members and 80 million mothers in the US,” commented Maribel Andonian, of Cupertino, on the Bay Area chapter page for the One Million Moms For Gun Control. “We ARE stronger than the gun manufacturers but we do have to stand up and fight this fight. We can do this!”

After just five weeks of organizing, Saturday marks the public coming-out of mothers who want to act on the idea that commonsense gun control has a place next to the Second Amendment’s right to bear arms.

Led by Marin moms Cynthia Pillsbury of Larkspur and Amanda Mortimer and moms from Los Altos Hills, Los Altos, Mountain View and Atherton, Bay Area members of 1 Million Moms 4 Gun Control will walk from Crissy Field in San Francisco, supporting the March on Washington for Gun Control, which the group is co-sponsoring.

“The conversations have been dominated by politics and profits—but now moms are speaking out,” said Kim Samek of Los Altos Hills, a mother of two.
“There is no way those things are as important as our kids.”

She and several Peninsula women who define themselves as mothers—just highly educated and high-powered ones—returned Thursday night from Washington D.C. to support Feinstein, who introduced gun control legislation Wednesday. “There are “literally dozens of bills introduced in the House as well,” Samek said. “We want to be part of something where we are actually doing something.”

Saturday’s march will cap a week of events that began with a march by moms in New York City, across the iconic Brooklyn Bridge. Marches in Indianapolis and Boston are also scheduled Saturday.

Samek, an estate attorney, remembers watching the news unfold of the Sandy Hook School shootings in disbelief. The day after that, she discovered Shannon Watts’ Facebook page.  It clicked with her.

 “On the day of Sandy Hook—I have a six year old—I thought, ‘it could have been me,’” she said. “And those parents, they’re they're dealing with so much. We need to do something so it can't happen again.”

She contacted Watts and asked if there was a chapter in the San Francisco Bay Area, and Watts said, no—would Samek like to put up a local Facebook page? So she did. Then she talked to a childhood friend, Ronit Bodner, and Christine Tachner, a Mountain View mother she met from her kids’ preschool. From there it snowballed... In that classic mom-in-Silicon Valley-networking kind of way. They now have 1,700 “likes” on the Facebook Page. Bodner recruited Sara Smirin of Los Altos and Michelle Sandberg in Atherton. They found themselves talking about what to do—the same way as Watts was in Indiana. They joined forces.

Tachner said she stopped saying, "Why isn't someone doing something about this?" and started asking herself, "Why am I not doing something about this?"

This is the opportunity to make a real change, “instead of talking about it,” Samek said. 

“This” is what the moms call “commonsense gun control.” They are not for banning guns, not for taking guns away from people, Samek said. They support guns for hunting, sporting, and personal protection. But, she asked “Do we need semi-automatic weapons with magazine capacity for 30 rounds? Without a background check on the Internet? No.”

They support reporting of large sales of ammunition to the federal Bureau of  Alcohol Tobacco and Firearms. "The shooter in Aurora had tens of thousands of rounds of ammunition," Samek said incredulously.

They organized offline, too. Less than two weeks ago, Watts flew out to their organizational meeting at Atherton pediatrician Michelle Sandberg’s home, where Sandberg, a physician at Santa Clara Valley Medical Center, has been providing a public health perspective on gun violence. Samek is now general counsel of the national group.

Tachner, Pillsbury and Mortimer are heading up the plans for the walk in San Francisco. With Jennifer DiBrienza of Palo Alto, they are just catching their breaths after their whirlwind, less-than-24-hour-trip to Washington to support the introduction of Feinstein’s bill. Perhaps understandably, the march at Crissy Field will not be a “march.”

“It’s a stroll, we’ll have a lot of mothers with strollers,” Samek said drolly.

With members from Marin County to San Jose and the East Bay, (“and everywhere in the middle”), the group is trying to engage the entire Bay Area. “We're looking to grow our membership even more. How to get them involved as well, to make sure their voices are heard. They are looking to engage more mothers, in ways outside of Facebook, she said.

The stroll may be a way to do it, in a mom-meets-mom-over-kids kind of way. Without much time to organize, the point is not to get a million moms to Crissy Field, it’s awareness, said Bodner. “We want it known, we want our collective voices to gather, and we want to support the moms and dads who are marching in D.C. We want to feel connected and get the word out. We’ll see.

“I’ll be there with my three kids.”

Saturday's walk is 10 a.m. at Crissy Field walking and bike path in San Francisco. Walkers will assemble at the East Beach parking lot near the Beach Hut Cafe & Snack Bar (NOT the Warming Hut on the west end)

Event organizers describe it this way: "This is not a rally or a march, rather a casual walk along the waterfront. It's an opportunity for supporters of this cause to get together, to hold signs and wear hearts, and to show our support and solidarity with those rallying in Washington, D.C. that day. If you arrive late, just start walking and look for our signs."

rex allen January 26, 2013 at 12:30 AM
Gun control advocates always confuse causation with correlation. Guns don't cause these massacres - Mental Defect does. The guns used are inanimate tools, just like knives, baseball bats, cars, matches, gasoline: all common things occasionally used for horrific purposes. Have you noticed that after 50 years of stiffer and stiffer restrictions on guns - more and more massacres are happening? Schoolyard massacres never happened in this country 50 or 100 years ago when we had few, if any gun laws, and guns were plentiful. Obvious conclusion? Gun laws don't work. Why? Because guns aren't the problem. There's something far more insidious happening in our society. Until that Cause discovered and fixed, restricting guns from law-abiding citizens guns is irrational, and the massacres will continue. Further, to ban and confiscate guns altogether is as ludicrous as banning cars from private ownership to prevent bank robberies. And if you think you don't need private firearms because the police will protect you from psychos, that theory didn't work for the 27 murdered in Newtown, where the police response was too late to prevent even a single death. Had a few or even one of the Newtown teachers and staff been armed with guns - with the will to use them in self-defense - the only news story we'd likely be discussing is one dead lunatic, and the 27 lives those guns saved. Rex Allen San Rafael, CA
Steven Norwin January 26, 2013 at 01:18 AM
Why don't these Marin Moms lead a mental health issue control instead!
Christine January 26, 2013 at 01:23 AM
Well, I'm one of the 4 million NRA members who happens to be a Marin mom who believes in the 2nd Ammendment.
Keith S. January 26, 2013 at 06:04 PM
Sandy Hook was a tragedy, none of the current laws or projected laws, except those regarding the mentally ill, would have stopped it. The 2nd Amendment is there for all the citizens. Please read and understand the Amendment before attempting to restrict it for law abiding citizens.
rex allen January 26, 2013 at 11:09 PM
Marin Moms against guns only think with their emotions, and emotion solves NOTHING.The problem CAUSING the massacres is mental defect. Fix THAT problem -- not a problem that doesn't exist.
Magoo January 27, 2013 at 03:02 AM
Why isn't it Marin Mothers e.g. Mothers against Drunk Drivers
Keith Conway January 27, 2013 at 04:34 AM
Well, since 31,000 people were murdered by guns in the US in 2011, do ya think we might want a little ...well you know...kind of like...maybe a little background check?...maybe...a little...if that's ok with you?
Magoo January 27, 2013 at 07:17 AM
Why isn't it Marin Mothers? e.g. Mothers against Drunk Drivers.
Buck Fuzby January 27, 2013 at 08:53 AM
Don't confuse the issue. California has both a background check and waiting period for gun buyers. Those sales must go through a Federally licensed firearms dealer. Uninformed sarcasm is just ignorance.
Kevin Moore January 27, 2013 at 10:03 PM
Keith, Here are some questions for you. Did you know there has been an Assault Weapon ban in Connecticut since 1994? So how did the mother have that rifle? So far the press or government have not released any details on how Lanza's firearms were stored or how he got access to those firearms. I think those are important facts. Much like leaving the keys in the car and having a kid kill people with it. Have you ever read the form that must be filled out when purchasing a firearm from a dealer? Here is form 4473, which everyone purchasing a firearm from a dealer must fill out. In California, there is a 10 day waiting period for the AG to verify the person did not lie on the form. http://www.atf.gov/forms/download/atf-f-4473-1.pdf
Closet Conservative January 28, 2013 at 03:19 PM
What about all of these cheap hand-guns that are killing our African-American youth in Chicago, Oakland, S.Central LA, Newark, Trenton, etc. each and every night. NO one seems too concerned about the 100's and 100's of youths lost.
rex allen January 28, 2013 at 05:33 PM
No one cares about those guns b/c the guns don't kill those youths. The PEOPLE using those guns kill those youths. Ban THEM.
Magoo January 28, 2013 at 08:17 PM
A better name is "Affluent Moms" (Athernon, Los Altos Hills, Lartkspur etc). You don't see anybody from Oakland so involved.Theyi're too busy working.
rex allen January 29, 2013 at 04:33 AM
Did the guns, on their own, just get up and shoot those inner city kids? Of course not. The MORONS using those guns did....Ban THEM, not MY or YOUR or anyone else's "cheap handguns."

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