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The Pain of a 49er Loss

Learning to live with the season ending loss.

 

It’s been almost three weeks since the 49ers lost to the Baltimore Ravens in the Superbowl.  Just writing this down brings back the pain and hurt.  I’ve done my best do move on and not dwell on it. Yet, as any true fan will tell you, the pain never goes away. In some ways, the pain of a season ending loss resides with us forever.  That was the answer I gave my wife the day after the loss.  I was deeply depressed and she asked, “It’s only a game, when will you  get over it?”  How does a fan answer that sort of comment and question?  ONE, it’s not only a game – it’s life.  After our families health and welfare, there are few things more devastating than a season ending loss, ESPECIALLY when it’s a game for the world championship.  And, TWO, I’ll never get over it.

On that note, I thought I’d re-live the other top-5 DEVASTING LOSSES the 49ers have suffered since I began following the team in 1970, as an 11 year old 6th grader at Tam Valley School. 

It should be pointed out that the 49ers were founded in 1946, and for 24 years, only twice made it to the post season.  It was before my time, but old time 49er fans will remember a painful playoff loss to the Detroit Lions in 1957.  The 49ers were in the lead at one time by the score of 27 – 7, then gave up the lead and lost the game 31 – 27.   That was the last playoff game for the 49ers until 1970, when John Brodie was at the tail of his career, having 2 final excellent seasons with the likes of Gene Washington, Dave Wilcox, Frank Nunley, Jimmy Johnson, Cedrick Hardman, and Charlie Krueger. They won their division in 1970 and 1971, only to lose both years season ending defeats to the Dallas Cowboys in the NFC title games.  As difficult as those losses were, there were not as painful as what happened in 1972. 

PAINFUL DEFEAT #1: For the 3rd year in a row, the 49ers faced the Cowboys in the 1972 playoffs, only this time it was a first round game.  The 49ers were favored, and went up quickly. They had a 28-16 lead with two minutes remaining in the game.  Dallas scored twice with Roger Staubach performing his heroics, and Preston Riley bouncing an on-sides kick off his chest. The Cowboys won 30-28.

These three consecutive playoff loses to Dallas were a great deal of the reason “The Catch”, by Dwight Clark in 1982 was so sweet.

PAINFUL DEFEAT #2: The 1998 49er Season was a success on most accounts.  Steve Young had his finest year to date. The Niners had a healthy Jerry Rice, a young Terrill Owens, a pro bowler Garrison Hearst. The team finished 12-4 and met the Green Bay Packers in a wild card game.  They defeated the Packers in the final seconds as Terrill Owens make “The Catch #2” to win the game.  The following week Garrison Hearst broke his ankle on the first offensive series of the game, and the Niners never recovered. Falcons won 20-19.  It also turned out to be the final playoff game for Steve Young.  It was the end of the 49ers Dynasty.

PAINFUL DEFEAT #3:  The 1983 49ers were two years post their first Superbowl victory.  The core of the team was still young, and not quite reaching their prime.  They reached the NFC Championship game, and were tied in the final quarter, only to lose 24-21 when a fathom holding call was signaled against Ronnie Lott, giving the Redskins the opportunity to kick a game winning field goal with less than 2 minutes in the game.  That pain is still felt to this day.

PAINFUL DEFEAT #4:  The 1987 49ers had one of their finest regular seasons, posting a 13-2 record.  Week after week they routed their opponents, with Jerry Rice in his second season and blossomed as the leagues finest.  Montana returned from a back injury and had  his finest statistical career.  Rice set a league record by catching 22 Touchdown passes in 12 games.  They were strong favorites to return and win the superbowl.  Instead, they laid an egg in round one of the playoffs and were sounded defeated by the Minnesota Vikings.  It was a loss that almost cost Bill Walsh his job.

PAINFUL DEFEAT #5:  Perhaps the most painful of all defeats, including the loss of this years superbowl loss to the Baltimore Ravens….. The Roger Craig fumble loss to the NY Giants in 1991.  The 49ers were looking to win their 3rd superbowl in 3 years. They finished the season 14-2, and defeated easily the Washington Redskins in the first round.  They played sluggish vs the NY Giants in the NFC Championship game, yet had the lead, and the ball with less than a minute to go.  All they had to do was run out the clock.  Instead, they ran Roger Craig up the middle, and he fumbled, giving the NY Giants one last chance.  The Giants capitalized and kicked a field goal to win the game 15-13.  This loss sat with me for months, and 21 years later, I still drop my head in sadness when I think about it…

So, no my dear wife… I will never get over this years loss to the Ravens…. It’s a pain I simply learn to live with…

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Bill Hall May 24, 2013 at 08:59 am
Well Mister Hat, I was asking a question that people who grew up here and remember the parades ofRead More Mill Valley still ask a lot. If that's complaining to you, sorry. There's many good things to this parade, the point is it is memorial Day , and many of the east coast newbies have been trying water down that part. I agree with you about the peace veterans, I always honk when I see them at the redwoods. Unfortunately you picked a battle with them and tried to keep them out of the parade, They end up separate in the back. Just because they included a list of Palestinians that were killed the week before with American bombs that we Tax payers give to Israel in support of an occupation. I believe your words were, " what the hell do Palestinians have to do with memorial day, " I doubt your politics would allow you to understand. I agree with you Mister Hat, it will be great when there's no war, but I'll always honor those who allowed me my freedom. Hopefully there will be a day when all people will live free of oppression, check points, and forced poverty. You are also right, many of us who grew up in Mill Valley go else where on this day to places that feel more like home. The fashion police was fun the first year, but now it's obnoxious and pretentious. As head Honcho you've turned it into more of a look at me, aren't I special parade. Mill Valley has an entitlement issue that you promote, it's shallow and pretentious. I just wish that the City would take over the Parade so you couldn't dictate your New York views on it. Good Day Mr. Hat
Erma Murphy May 23, 2013 at 11:57 am
Well said Larry!
Larry the Hat Lautzker May 23, 2013 at 09:22 am
Every year we get a handful of folks who complain about something they don't like about the parade.Read More In this case, I could take a great deal of time to explain that most veterans go to the Civic Center or Presidio for a more tradition Memorial Day event. Fortunately or however by design, Mill Valley is NOT stuck in tradition. If I may speak as a community (as I see it), we all in our own way celebrate Memorial Day. I don't believe anyone takes for granted our Grand Parents, Fathers, Sons or Daughters who gave their lives so we could grow up in a better world filled with love, compassion and protecting our right to live in a free society. So we Celebrate Mill Valley on Memorial Day, ever mindful of our countries history. We celebrate in our own way. With a great Pancake breakfast that benefits the Volunteer Fire Dept. Then we go the Parade where all sorts and sizes of floats, people and organizations get to strut their stuff, ever reminding us how blessed we are to live in this great little town. Next the celebration continues, it's off to the KIDDO Carnival and Concert on the Green at the Community Center (one of the finest in the Nation) that benefits Music, Art and many other PUBLIC school programs. We inherited the right to celebrate Memorial Day consistent (I believe)with what our forefathers envisioned and fought for. A healthy and free society, where people work and play together to make our cities, towns, country and world a better place. Imagine a world where there are NO war veterans, I like the sound of a world filled with Peace veterans. That's what Memorial Day is for me and in Mill Valley we have a Great Party. Hope to see you there! Larry the Hat, Head Honcho 'I Love a Parade Committee' PS. Anyone can apply to be in the Parade or reach out to the I Love a Parade Committee to bring to light their concerns and hopefully with constructive ideas (not just complaining). If that's not enough, have your own entry that reflects what you want to happen in the parade. If you think complaining makes a difference, You are FREE to do that.
Old Mill Park on Saturday afternoon
Thrasy Bulus May 21, 2013 at 01:33 pm
I've also noticed large numbers of people out and about enjoying the warm weather.
Rico May 24, 2013 at 10:26 am
It would have to be done over a period of time, like a few months to create something really niceRead More and complex. As each stage is completed, the artists could sprinkle glass beads on the wet paint, that is how centerlines on the streets are reflectorized. The end result would be so dazzling and gorgeous that nobody would want to run over the artwork. Also, this would be a uniquely beautiful public works project that would really capture the artistic spirit of Mill Valley, and possibly put Mill Valley on record as having the hippest traffic circle in the world. I have some great designs that I would be willing to project onto the circle for the layout.
Rico May 24, 2013 at 10:13 am
I have an idea, how about we organize a bunch of artists to paint a beautiful psychedelic mandala inRead More the in the circle. It could be done with stencils and spray paint, and also painted by hand with brushes. Of course it should be done to a master outline.
Rico May 23, 2013 at 04:55 pm
Reply to ScottRAB, There were never any traffic signals or STOP signs at that intersection, thatRead More intersection does not warrant any such control. Actually for traffic using Molino going to Old Mill, there is no delay with the circle, but traffic coming down from Molino to Cascade Dr. and from Cascade to Old Mill there is a delay and I doubt anyone pays any attention to the painted circle anyway, but the new painted crosswalk on Old Mill is a good idea, and so is the new Yield sign on Cascade Dr. Those 2 things are all that is really needed. Note that the Yield sign is a regulatory sign, and the other circle sign is only an advisory sign. According to the M.U.T.C.D, shall, should and may are the basic description of the classes of signs. A regulatory sign is mandatory or shall, like a STOP or a YIELD sign and is red and black, a warning sign or should sign is black on yellow, like when you see an arrow with a 25, that means it is not illegal to go faster than 25 mph but it is advised. Then you have guide signs (black on white) like the circle sign which are guide signs, so that sign means nothing if a motorist disregards it, which most all people do anyway. Mill Valley is not a big congested city in Europe, and that intersection is not even in a high volume-high speed location such as other intersections in town. Sorry for the above 2 posts, when posting on the Patch I have to remember never to hit the enter button, no more paragraphs. Perhaps this is to discourage long posts, and by the way, a question to the Patch editors, is there a limit to the number of characters when posting on the new Patch ?